Short Stack Reviews

A huge thank-you to the publishers, authors, tour hosts, and NetGalley for giving me the opportunity to read and review the books below.  As always, I use Goodreads to include the synopsis, which you can read by clicking the link below each novel.

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This is a very in-depth look into parenting styles and its impact on their relationship with their children and the way children blossom into adults.  While this book is geared to all populations, it reads more like an academic book, that would be suitable for a classroom discussion.  Because of this, it may be difficult for parents to dissect the information without someone to process this with.  An overall good perspective that highlights ways to raise productive children into adults.

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This book was super creepy!!  Who knew I’d be so scared of a little girl, who turns out she is more than what she seems.  The story is a mixture of The Amiytiville Horror movie and The Sixth Sense, but super demonic…that I didn’t realize until the very end.  Perhaps, if I have known, I would have not read it.  It reminded me of the saying, “the sins of the father are to be laid upon the children”, by William Shakespeare.  Wow…this book reflects that!  The ending wasn’t as strong as I would have liked, with interpretation left to the reader, however the story kept me engaged. Caution: if you do not like scary books, demonic type books, books with loose ends, then this book is not for you!

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How can I review a book that is based on fact and on the viewpoint of one amazing author? I can’t.  Kathryn Craft is not only an amazing mother, gift writer, but she is a survivor.  As I read this book, I kept having to remind myself that this was in many ways a “non-fiction” novel, written in “fiction”, as some scenarios and names were changed.  This book will certainly raise lots of questions about the importance of mental health care, family loyalty (Ronnie’s mom is best friends with her mom), the police and the way they handled the situation, and the children…oh, my heart broke for them!  It was a gripping story that is definitely one that is far from a happy one, but one that is worth being read.

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Review: Lost Girls: An Unsolved American Mystery by Robert Kolker

Book Information:

  • Genre: Non-fiction (murder mystery)
  • Source:  Edelweiss & Publisher
  • Pages: 416 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Collins Publishers (July 9, 2013)
  • Cupcake Scale Rating: An excellent cupcake with sprinkles AND a cherry on top! (click here to find out what that means)


Award-winning investigative reporter Robert Kolker delivers a haunting and humanizing account of the true-life search for a serial killer still at large on Long Island, in a compelling tale of unsolved murder and Internet prostitution.

One late spring evening in 2010, Shannan Gilbert, after running through the oceanfront community of Oak Beach screaming for her life, went missing. No one who had heard of her disappearance thought much about what had happened to the twenty-four-year-old: she was a Craigslist prostitute who had been fleeing a scene—of what, no one could be sure. The Suffolk County Police, too, seemed to have paid little attention—until seven months later, when an unexpected discovery in a bramble alongside a nearby highway turned up four bodies, all evenly spaced, all wrapped in burlap. But none of them Shannan’s.

There was Maureen Brainard-Barnes, last seen at Penn Station in Manhattan three years earlier, and Melissa Barthelemy, last seen in the Bronx in 2009. There was Megan Waterman, last seen leaving a hotel in Hauppage, Long Island, just a month after Shannan’s disappearance in 2010, and Amber Lynn Costello, last seen leaving a house in West Babylon a few months later that same year. Like Shannan, all four women were petite and in their twenties, they all came from out of town to work as escorts, and they all advertised on Craigslist and its competitor, Backpage.

In a triumph of reporting—and in a riveting narrative—Robert Kolker presents the first detailed look at the shadow world of escorts in the Internet age, where making a living is easier than ever and the dangers remain all too real. He has talked exhaustively with the friends and family of each woman to reveal the three-dimensional truths about their lives, the struggling towns they came from, and the dreams they chased. And he has gained unique access to the Oak Beach neighborhood that has found itself the focus of national media scrutiny—where the police have flailed, the body count has risen, and the neighbors have begun pointing fingers at one another. There, in a remote community, out of sight of the beaches and marinas scattered along the South Shore barrier islands, the women’s stories come together in death and dark mystery. Lost Girls is a portrait not just of five women, but of unsolved murder in an idyllic part of America, of the underside of the Internet, and of the secrets we keep without admitting to ourselves that we keep them.

My Review:

It’s hard to understand how a book filled with horrific detail about murders that happened to young girls can be an excellent, must read.  Trust me, this is!  Robert Kolker does not add fiction, because this book needs none.  This book is filled with only factual information, told to Robert by the many people he interviewed….and he went everywhere to talk to those who knew the “lost girls”.   He went to the girl’s hometowns, tracked down friends, associates, pimps, other escort girls, families, and boyfriends.  He did countless hours on research, talking with police, detectives, and people who could shed light on finding the killer(s). The amount of research was astounding and truly shows with all the detail Robert covers in the book.

This book does not read like a police report or transcript.  Robert Kolker takes the reader into the dark world of drugs and prostitution, detailing the events leading up the murders of the girls on Long Island, NY.  Each chapter focuses on 1 lost girl, and details what drew her into the life of prostitution, using drugs, and eventually meeting clients through Craigslist.  Before people judge these young girls, it is important to understand what led them to that lifestyle.  No girl-who is someone’s sister, daughter, niece, granddaughter-wishes to be a prostitute, wishes to be a drug user, and wishes to sell herself online to make money.  While each girl’s life is different, it is apparent what having an absent mother and father does to these young girls, as they raise themselves in a poverty stricken household.  While not every girl is poverty stricken, something compels each of them to go into that lifestyle, with most being led into it by a friend or family member.

Robert doesn’t sway the reader to form an opinion of the girls and their lifestyle.  He simply lays the information, as he describes the events leading up to each girl’s disappearance.  Just when the murders can’t get any more horrific, Shannan Gilbert is introduced.  Unusual and crazy circumstances surrounding the timeline leading up to her death and will have readers wanting to figure out who did it, too.  Is her death linked to the Long Island serial killer?  Was her death a botched one because she did have her cellphone and driver?  Did the killer get frustrated with her and kill her differently?  Was it a truly fluke accidental drowning caused by drug infused psychosis?  Robert even adds a section on “theories” and actually interviews the people suspected of killing Shannan, aiming to leave no stone unturned.

This book will haunt readers, unlike any other book!  This is true-crime murder mystery, that leads up to the possibility of having a serial killer on a secluded little area: Oak Beach.  Sadly, more bodies were found (a total of 12), and many are Jane Doe’s.  It is so sad and tragic that people can disappear with no one asking for them, wondering where they went, and having these victims remain nameless.  It will make the reader angry, scared, sad, and in the end-the reader will want to see justice served, too.

This book is a necessary read.  Why? Because it shows how important it is that we take care of our daughters, encourage self-esteem, be a support to single mothers, help out our neighbors, be vigilant in our communities, and cause people to change laws, create new ones, and hold men accountable for soliciting services.  Craigslist should be held accountable, too.  Our sons need to be taught how to respect themselves, practice self-control, and they need positive male role models.  Schools needs to be invested in their students, regardless of socio-economic status.  As a community, we need to help train up our daughters and sons-help them with resources, and be vigilant in combatting drug abuse, sexual solicitation, and human trafficking.  Sexual human trafficking girls and boys are everywhere-in our neighborhoods, in our stores, in our community.  We as a nation need to be more present and know what’s going on in our neighborhoods.

There are few changes/additions that I would have preferred: pictures of the victims-to put a name with a face.  The timeline at the end of the book would have been better for me to have been placed at the beginning of the book, so that I wouldn’t have been so confused at the beginning with the names of the girls and who they were.  Lastly, to have had the bullet points on each girl’s info (displayed at the end of the book), placed at the beginning of each chapter with the corresponding girl.

Nonetheless, this is a fantastic read and will not only be a true murder mystery that will keep the reader engaged the whole time, but it will certainly move readers to be more vigilant at home, with loved ones, and hopefully create some change.

*This book was provided through Edelweiss, in exchange for an honest review.

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More Information on the Lost Girls:

48 Hours (1st episode)

48 Hours Episode (new episode)

( has some new interviews, but basically same video as the 1st episode.)

48 Hours, Erin Moriarty’s Blog on LISK

Everything you need to read from Huffington Post on LISK info.

TLC Book Tour: Margaret Fuller: A New American Life by Megan Marshall



From an early age, Margaret Fuller dazzled New England’s intelligent elite. Her famous Conversations changed women’s sense of how they could think and live; her editorship of the Dial shaped American Romanticism. Now, Megan Marshall, whose acclaimed The Peabody Sisters “discovered” three fascinating women, has done it again: no biography of Fuller has made her ideas so alive or her life so moving.

Marshall tells the story of how Fuller, tired of Boston, accepted Horace Greeley’s offer to be the New York Tribune’s front-page columnist. The move unleashed a crusading concern for the urban poor and the plight of prostitutes, and a hunger for passionate experience. In Italy as a foreign correspondent, Fuller took a secret lover; wrote dispatches on the brutal 1849 Siege of Rome; and gave birth to a son.

When all three died in a shipwreck off Fire Island shortly after Fuller’s 40th birthday, the sense and passion of her life’s work were eclipsed by tragedy and scandal. Marshall’s inspired account brings an American heroine back to indelible life.

My Review:

I think I started reading this book with a different idea as to how the book would unfold.  It reads more like a factual document (with lots of quotation marks throughout), rather than a story.  Because of this, I found it hard to stay engaged.  Again, I went into reading this book with false pretenses, so I think that may be a reason why I didn’t enjoy this book as much as others have.  However, once I got into the book, I found Margaret Fuller’s life quite interesting. Having never studied her before, she was quite fascinating, a crusader in a man’s world, and certainly paved a way for other women, who could continue in her footsteps.  Nonetheless, the author, Megan Marshall, did extensive research and it shows!!! There is just a plethora of information and would actually be a great book requirement for high school students!! We need more women role models and need to study more heroines that are brave, in the face of adversity!

*This book was provided through TLC Book Tours.



Instant Mom…Instant Love! My Review of Nia Vardalos’ Book.


In Instant Mom, Nia Vardalos, writer and star of My Big Fat Greek Wedding, tells her hilarious and poignant road-to-parenting story that eventually leads to her daughter and prompts her to become a major advocate for adoption.

Moments after Nia Vardalos finds out she has been nominated for an Oscar for the screenplay for My Big Fat Greek Wedding, she is alone and en route to a fertility clinic, trying yet again for a chance at motherhood.

Vardalos chronicles her attempts to have a baby, and how she tries everything—from drinking jugs of green mud tea, to acupuncture, to working with two surrogates. Finally, she and her husband, actor Ian Gomez, decide to try adoption and discover a free service: Foster Family Agencies. Then one day, the social workers “match” her with an almost-three-year-old girl, who she knows, instantly, is her daughter.

With her signature wit and candor, Nia Vardalos reveals what really came next—the truth of how she and her husband transitioned a preschooler into their home. Vardalos opens up about the bawling-tears and belly-laughter that all make up what it means to be…a parent.

My Review:

If you are a mom of a foster child, have ever contemplated adoption, or have friends that have adopted, then YOU need to read this book!! If you are a mom, want to be a mom, are a woman…then you will want to read this book, too!  This book is hilarious, and is filled with moments where you will cry, and you will be highlighting and taking notes, and wanting to try some of the zany things she does for her daughter.

I love the ease of writing, how the stories just flowed, and the way Nia was able to write about her journey as a mom without exploiting her daughter, or revealing too many personal identifying factors about her.  As a mom of a foster child, I value the way she managed that delicate balance.  I loved that she agreed, being a mom isn’t about being pregnant…it’s when you actually take the time to love, nurture, and spend quality time with your child.  While I was a mom of 2 sons, we completed our family when she arrived!

Nia adopted her little girl at 3 years old and brings up great points: how can we love an abused and abandoned animal that we adopt, but feel that a child is less of value and is damaged goods???  Granted, not every person is called to adopt, but every child deserves a forever home.  Nia shares her journey with unsuccessful fertility treatments and how emotionally overwhelming it all was.  After so many years of trying to have a biological child, she decided to venture into the world of adoption.  She chronicles her journey of looking at the various types of adoption: international, private, and foster care adoption.  She gives a staggering number of children available in the U.S., who are available for adoption and who are in foster homes waiting for their forever homes.

If you’ve personally adopted or know of someone who has, you will have heard the same story: the moment you and your child first see each other, the world stops still and your heart expands more than you knew capable.  It’s not much different to when a mom has a natural birth and after she delivers, she and her baby make eye contact for the first time.  It’s a special moment, one that I remember for each of my children (bio and adopted) and it is a surreal, forever imprinted memory in a mom’s mind.

Nia describes the bonding process, developing attachment with her little girl, and describes the way she and her husband became a family the day her daughter entered their lives.  I loved some of the funny moments Nia shares, too!!  I also loved that she shared her personal experiences with creating a bedtime ritual, having family time when out and about the community (paparazzi stories), and adjusting to preschool.  Nia creates this funny game to develop bonding (baking, anyone?), and just their crazy, fun way of playing at home.  I also loved the story Nia tells her daughter about how she prayed and wanted a little girl and how they became a family.

When we were going through the adoption process, it would have been great to have read this book!! I love the very easy, simple to use ideas that she did and shares with her readers, and I love the resources she gives at the end of the book.  Overall, this was an excellent read and I hope that Nia will consider writing more!!

Review: In the Garden of Beasts: Love, Terror, and an American Family in Hitler’s Berlin by Erik Larson


“Larson is a marvelous writer…superb at creating characters with a few short strokes.”—New York Times Book Review   Erik Larson has been widely acclaimed as a master of narrative non-fiction, and in his new book, the bestselling author of Devil in the White City turns his hand to a remarkable story set during Hitler’s rise to power. The time is 1933, the place, Berlin, when William E. Dodd becomes America’s first ambassador to Hitler’s Germany in a year that proved to be a turning point in history. A mild-mannered professor from Chicago, Dodd brings along his wife, son, and flamboyant daughter, Martha. At first Martha is entranced by the parties and pomp, and the handsome young men of the Third Reich with their infectious enthusiasm for restoring Germany to a position of world prominence. Enamored of the “New Germany,” she has one affair after another, including with the suprisingly honorable first chief of the Gestapo, Rudolf Diels. But as evidence of Jewish persecution mounts, confirmed by chilling first-person testimony, her father telegraphs his concerns to a largely indifferent State Department back home. Dodd watches with alarm as Jews are attacked, the press is censored, and drafts of frightening new laws begin to circulate. As that first year unfolds and the shadows deepen, the Dodds experience days full of excitement, intrigue, romance—and ultimately, horror, when a climactic spasm of violence and murder reveals Hitler’s true character and ruthless ambition. Suffused with the tense atmosphere of the period, and with unforgettable portraits of the bizarre Göring and the expectedly charming–yet wholly sinister–Goebbels, In the Garden of Beasts lends a stunning, eyewitness perspective on events as they unfold in real time, revealing an era of surprising nuance and complexity. The result is a dazzling, addictively readable work that speaks volumes about why the world did not recognize the grave threat posed by Hitler until Berlin, and Europe, were awash in blood and terror.
My Review:
  I’ve heard a lot about this book, as it has been out for some time now. However, I resisted reading the book. I actually didn’t like the title of the book…so it certainly didn’t draw my attention at first.  I had just finished reading a book and was in a book slump for awhile.  Then, I got this notice from my library that the book had come available for me to download.  I had forgotten that I requested it a loooong time ago!  It couldn’t have come at a better time than now!
  This was a rather interesting read. Erick states this is a book of non-fiction. I was amazed at how much research and piecing together facts from various sources he did to make this book. This book has extensive research!! I was surprised at how many people journaled and kept diaries back then, coupled with saved letters, Erik lets the story unfold.  WWII, Jews in concentration camps, and other stories about that era are things I hate to read, but love to read.  Does that make sense?  I really resist reading these kinds of book because the stories stay with me long after the book has been put down.  This book is told through a different side. It’s told from the perspective of the Ambassador to Germany, William Dodd and his daughter, Martha.
While the daily persecutions of the Jewish people wasn’t written in detail, the mass killings of those who followed Hitler was described.  People didn’t trust each other, didn’t know who would turn them in for saying something negative about the government, Hitler, hysteria, and this indescrible amount of fear consumed the people of Germany.  A Jewish banker was rather smart when he offered his extravagant home for very cheap rent to Ambassador Dodd and his family.  The banker knew living with the American Ambassdador would provide protection and immunity from the daily harrassment of Nazis.
Enamored with the Old Germany Ambassador Dodd knew as a college student, and his daughter enamored with the New Germany under Hitler’s regime, both are given a real glimpse into what is happening, that is not being reported to the world: mass killings, tortured Jewish people in concentration camps, passing of laws to make it okay to sterilize people that are not deemed Aryan worth, people being exiled from their homes and businesses, beatings for not giving the Hitler salute or not doing it properly, American tourists being beaten and paid off to not report it back to the states, etc.
Americans were still recovering from the Great Depression, so they didn’t want to accept  immigrants into the States for fear that it would burden the economy, bankers were concerned about the excess money Germany still owed and were afraid if they spoke out against Hitler that the money would not be repaid, Americans were not being told everything that was going on in Germany (including FDR), and so many mistruths were told to pacify Hitler and his regime.  Parties, excess drinking, sex, and bribery were common amongst the supporters of Hitler and only when it was truly too late to do anything about what was happening, did people start speaking out in silent protests….which often resulted in disappearances and death.
  This is an excellent book and one that I took my time reading. There was so much information and people affected during those times, that I didn’t want to rush through the book.  It’s worth reading, it’s a story that should be told to remind us of what can happen, what does happen when someone is given too much power, and how once the wheels starts turning, it truly is too hard to stop the eventual negative impacts of decisions made.

Mini-Reviews- Cupcake with a Little Icing, Cupcake with Sprinkles, Cupcake with Cherry on Top Ratings!


Adelia has no one to blame for her heartache. She’d been cautioned, many times and by many people. Everyone except her mother had told her it was folly to marry an elf, citing a host of reasons. Adelia knew their warnings were not unfounded. She knew he was very different from her and her kind, he was much older, and he’d had five other wives before her. She didn’t care. She had chosen her path.

The Sixth Wife is a novella of approximately 7,300 words (35 pages).


This is a short story that took me about 2 hours to read. It was a rather interesting storyline and one that I think many can relate to….aging and loving someone.  I would have loved for the story to have been longer because the author would have had more time to explain some of the history behind the elves and humans, how they live, and how their worlds merge.  Nonetheless, it was a good story.

*This book was provided for free through Library Thing by author, Laura Lond, in exchange for an honest review.  To purchase the book for your Kindle, please click on the picture and you will be directed to the purchase link.



A CASE FOR SOLOMON: BOBBY DUNBAR AND THE KIDNAPPING THAT HAUNTED A NATION chronicles one of the most celebrated—and most misunderstood—kidnapping cases in American history. In 1912, four-year-old Bobby Dunbar, the son of an upper-middle-class Louisiana family, went missing in the swamps. After an eight-month search that electrified the country and destroyed Bobby’s parents, the boy was found, filthy and hardly recognizable, in the pinewoods of southern Mississippi. A wandering piano tuner who had been shuttling the child throughout the region by wagon for months was arrested and charged with kidnapping—a crime that was punishable by death at the time. But when a destitute single mother came forward from North Carolina to claim the boy as her son, not Bobby Dunbar, the case became a high-pitched battle over custody—and identity—that divided the South.Amid an ever-thickening tangle of suspicion and doubt, two mothers and a father struggled to assert their rightful parenthood over the child, both to the public and to themselves. For two years, lawyers dissected and newspapers sensationalized every aspect of the story. Psychiatrists, physicians, criminologists, and private detectives debated the piano tuner’s guilt and the boy’s identity. And all the while the boy himself remained peculiarly guarded on the question of who he was. It took nearly a century, a curiosity that had been passed down through generations, and the science of DNA to discover the truth.A Case for Solomon is a gripping historical mystery, distilled from a trove of personal and archival research. The story of Bobby Dunbar, fought over by competing New Orleans tabloids, the courts, and the citizenry of two states, offers a case study in yellow journalism, emergent forensic science, and criminal justice in the turn-of-the-century American South. It is a drama of raw poverty and power and an exposÉ of how that era defined and defended motherhood, childhood, and community. First told in a stunning episode of National Public Radio’s This American Life, A Case for Solomon chronicles the epic struggle to determine one child’s identity, along the way probing unsettling questions about the formation of memory, family, and self.Review:I received this book to read and review by Simon & Schuster.  I felt like a reporter reading this book, because at times it read like a report or case study.  I had to actually remind myself that it read that way because it is a real story that happened in America!!  I was amazed at how many people were willing to lie to themselves because the alternative was too painful. As a family therapist, I was mesmerized and would have loved to have met the family.  There were so many family patterns and issues that weren’t dealt with, but with anything, a lie will slowly rip apart the seams of a very intact family.  It was a great book that I enjoyed reading.

*This book was provided for by Simon & Schuster for an honest review.  To purchase the book for your Kindle, please click on the picture and to be directed to the book.



When Christine Blacksworth’s larger-than-life father is killed on an icy road in Magdalena, New York, a hundred miles from the ‘getaway’ cabin he visited every month, she discovers a secret that threatens everything she’s always held to be true. Her father has another family which includes a mistress and a daughter. Determined to uncover the truth behind her father’s secret life, Christine heads to Magdalena, prepared to hate the people who have caused her to question everything she thought she knew about her father. But what she finds is a woman who understands her, a half sister who cherishes her, and a man who could love her if she’ll let him. The longer she’s around them, the more she questions which family is the real one. . .

Included in the Kindle edition are 2 Chapters of PULLING HOME – She’ll risk anything to save her child…even the truth.


This was a great book!  This is the first book I’ve read from the author, and I love her writing. The characters are developed very well and it was interesting to read how Mary balances the characters with the plot, without making the book too bogged down with details.  While there are moments where the storyline is unrealistic, the issues of family secrets, alliances, and expectations, readers will certainly understand those family dynamics.  The story is about 500+ pages, but it sure does go fast!


Review: Never See Them Again by M. William Phelps

Product Details

  • Print Length: 385 pages
  • Publisher: Kensington Books; 1 edition (February 28, 2012)
  • Genre:  Non-Fiction


An affluent community of high-achievers, the Houston suburb of Clear Lake, Texas, is home to oil company execs and NASA employees. But in the summer of 2003, a life of good fortune came to a violent end for some of its most promising residents. In this gripping true story of betrayal and murder, national bestselling author M. William Phelps, star of the hit TV series Dark Minds, delves into the heart of a baffling mystery to get to the truth of an act so brutal it could not be understood—until now.

The heat was oppressive on July 18, 2003, with the threat of a torrential downpour. Mild gusts were whipping around the yellow police tape that surrounded a well-tended contemporary home. Something so horrific had taken place inside that house, no one, it seemed, could come to terms with just how bad the scene truly was.

What lay beyond the front-door threshold was a shocking sight—the bodies of four young people, viciously slain: eighteen-year-olds Rachael Koloroutis and Tiffany Rowell, along with Marcus Precella and his cousin, Adelbert Sanchez. The social bar at Clear Lake High School was set high, and Rachael and Tiffany had stood at the top, beautiful, intelligent, and beloved. But tragically, their kindness ultimately made them targets—because when a killer came knocking that lazy afternoon, it turned out to be someone they knew all too well…

Seventeen-year-old Christine Paolilla was a shy, awkward girl who endured cruel taunts throughout her youth—until Rachael and Tiffany befriended her. With their guidance, Christine blossomed. It was no wonder it took police three interminable years to discover she was behind the cruel murder of the girls she called her best friends. What had gone so terribly wrong? And how had a teenager managed to elude police for so long?

Drawing on nearly 100 hours of interviews he conducted with scores of sources, and thousands of pages of documentation, Phelps unravels the mystery of this unlikely killer’s troubled mind. And as only he can, Phelps delivers a heart-pounding narrative and brilliantly insightful account of parents crazed with grief, puzzled law enforcement, and the soul of a shattered community.

My Review:

Although a Houstonian and the amount of press this case received, I had not heard of this quadruple murder that took place in the heart of Clear Lake City.  It was the year that I graduated from the University of Houston-Clear Lake with masters in Family Therapy and watching television was not a luxury I could afford as I prepared for my state licensing exams.

However, one of the greatest benefits of belonging to a book club, is learning what my fellow members are reading.  My curiosity peaked when a friend in the book club mentioned this book she had just checked out from the library.  Being quite familiar with the area and neighborhood, I couldn’t wait to borrow it from the library and purchased it onto my Nook reader immediately!

William Phelps, author of this book, has a true gift for writing.  Staying true to the events and reviewing every report, watching all the interviews and providing his own research and interviews, William brings together this sadistic and horrendous crime to life.  There were quite a few times I had to put the book down and just process what I had read.  Where there were moments of joy as family member recounted good memories of their children, whose lives were tragically ended in a violent and sadistic manner.  William also brings to light the depression, mental illness, and other issues that could have contributed to the reasons behind those who murdered friends.  There are quite a few dark moments in this books and as a reader, I could sense the darkness that enveloped the murderers as they were tortured and continued to self-inflict through drug use.  However, William doesn’t make excuses nor does he try to reason why they murdered their friends. Rather, he simply lays out all the pieces of the puzzle and helps bring closure to the family members left behind.

This is an excellent book that every parent should read.  As a parent, it just solidifies my stance on the importance of being actively involved in knowing who our children are friends with and being proactive in teaching our children about drugs/alcohol.  That is not to say that the parents of those murdered didn’t do that, however it is a reminder of how vigilant we need to be for our children.

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My First Book Review for 2012: The End of Normal: A Wife’s Anguish, A Widow’s New Life by Stephanie Madoff Mack

Shoulder Surgery Update:
I went to my doctor for a pre-op appointment today.  I was given a cold water therapy unit that is supposed to run ice cold water through this pack that I will need to use for 2 weeks.  I was also given a sling that is not traditional by any means.  I don’t look forward to wearing it for 24/7 and it somehow makes me feel claustrophobic.  However, I am ready to move forward and can’t wait to get this whole surgery past me.  I can’t sleep from the shoulder pain and am ready to get back to my “normal” life without having to deal with constant shoulder pain and be limited with my daily activities.


An explosive, heartbreaking memoir from the widow of Mark Madoff and daughter-in-law of Bernard Madoff, the first genuine inside story from a family member who has lived through- and survived-both the public crisis and her own deeply personal tragedy.

When the news of Bernard Madoff ‘s Ponzi scheme broke, Americans were shocked and outraged, perhaps none more so than the unsuspecting members of his own family. After learning that their father’s legendarily successful wealth management company was “all just one big lie,” Mark and Andrew Madoff turned their father in and cut off all communication with both parents. Mark and his wife, Stephanie, strove to make a fresh start for the sake of their two young children, but Mark could not overcome his sense of betrayal and shame-he and other family members were sued for $200 million in October of 2009. He hung himself on the two-year anniversary of his father’s arrest. Left to raise her children as a single mother, Stephanie wrote this memoir to give them a sense of who their father really was, defend his innocence, and put her personal statement on record once and for all. In this candid insider account, she talks about her idyllic wedding to Mark on Nantucket, what it was really like to be a part of the Madoff family, the build-up to Bernard’s confession, and the media frenzy that followed. It is about the loss of the fairytale life she knew, adjusting to life with a man she hardly recognized anymore, and the tragic and final loss of her husband.

My Review:

I am probably the only person in the world who did not know the details regarding the Madoff ponzi scheme before reading this book.  Because of this, reading Stephanie’s book came from a place of getting to know her and how she coped with the loss of her husband.  As a family therapist, I have worked with families who have been affected by suicide.  So, this was really my interest and intrigue in reading this book.  What I got, was so much more.

Stephanie Madoff Mack doesn’t hold back her thoughts, emotions, and shares private moments in her family and the Madoff family.  I read online that Stephanie was often asked by interviewers why she chose to write a book 6 months after the death of her husband….almost as if it wasn’t appropriate because not enough time had passed.  In my opinion, Stephanie choosing to write this book during that time was actually quite cathartic for her, helped her share her most intimate thoughts without holding back, and gave her a platform to show to the world who her husband really was.  In doing this, she was also able to reveal the inner struggles Mark ( her husband) experienced as a result of his father’s crime and the devastation it caused to her, Mark, and his children.

No longer the protector, the buffer, the one Stephanie could turn to who also shared in her grief and anger over Bernie Madoff’s crime, she is left alone to pick up the pieces and continue the fight for justice as she works to clear Mark’s name against any wrongdoing the media tried pinning on him and his brother, Andrew.  As Stephanie Madoff Mack shares her story, she unknowingly gives a voice to those left behind from suicide. She shares the pain she experienced, where she was when “it” happened, and the struggles and challenges she experienced with the Madoff family.  Stephanie is very raw and open as she describes the anguish, anger, betrayal, and loneliness of being a widow and mother to two small children.

I loved that she consulted with a therapist during the aftermath of the suicide and how she helped her children cope with their Daddy dying and what they do as a family to talk with him and share their joys with him in the sky.  At the time of Mark’s suicide, Stephanie was in graduate school studying to be a Child Life Specialist.  I found it rather interesting that she helped families of children with cancer cope, and unknowingly had the tools needed to help her own children cope with such a devastating tragedy.

I was amazed and saddened by the way Mark and his wife, Stephanie were treated simply because they were Madoff’s and the stigma that followed them to the point of causing Mark and Stephanie to agree that she and the children should change their last name.  For those who want to vilify this family, this is not the story for you.  For those who want to catch a glimpse into the Madoff’s history from a woman married into the family, this may intrigue you.  However, if you are wanting to read the true story of one woman who has dealt with a huge scandal, the death of her husband, the betrayal and humiliation of in-laws, then this story will shake you to your core.  In preserving her husband’s legacy, she ultimately finds her voice, learns to find a new normal, and shows that despite losing everything, you don’t have to lose yourself.

I loved this book and appreciated Stephanie’s candor.  Stephanie includes emails, letters, and intimate photos of her and Mark, as well as other family members.  My heart goes out to her and her children and I admire her strength and courage.

Review: The Literary Ladies: Guide to the Writing Life by Nava Atlas



Nava Atlas is a popular author who has more than 500,000 copies of her books in print. In this beautifully designed and illustrated book, Nava explores what it is like to live the writing life through the journals, letters, and diaries of twelve celebrated women writers, including such renowned authors as Jane Austen, Charlotte Bronte, Madeleine LEngle, Anais Nin, George Sand, Edith Wharton, and Virginia Woolf. Navas own insightful commentary lifts the curtain on these womens lives and provides reassuring tips and advice on such subjects as dealing with rejection, money matters, and balancing family with the solitary writing process that will resonate with women writers in todays world. With 100+ vintage photos, illustrations, and ephemera, this book is a splendid gift book for writers.

My Review:

My first thoughts when I received this book is that it’s absolutely stunning!  This is a beautifully bound book and has wonderful pictures and quotations throughout.  Nava Atlas spent a lot of time researching the authors in her book and went to great lengths to put each author’s words and ideas in a way that makes sense to the reader.  For those of you who own an e-reader, like me, I would highly suggest you purchase the hardcover book! It ‘s gorgeous, so inspiring to read about early female writers and what they did to become writers, their wishes/dreams, and other interesting tidbits about who they were.  This is the kind of book that every book collector, new writer, bibliophile that has everything, and those who love history should own.

I cannot give enough praise for this book!

*This book was provided for an honest review by Sellers Publishing.  No monetary or other forms of compensation were given.